2nd August 2018

Absence Makes the Heart Forget! Here is Why

“Absence makes the heart grow fonder but continuous absence makes the heart forget” Thomas Haynes Bayly “Absence makes the heart grow fonder” is one quote that has been doing a great job at consoling couples who have to cultivate a […]
2nd August 2017

Career and Family: Can A Woman Have it All?

As Sayo watched a female lawyer successfully defend her client in a soap opera, she looked at Tade, her twenty year old son and said, “I was going to become a lawyer” With his eyes widened and his mouth ajar, […]
31st May 2017

Love and Giving

“It is not how much we give but how much love we put into giving” Mother Theresa   I am a lover of love stories and I recently came across the love story of  J.R.R Tolkein, the author of Lord […]
8th May 2017

When Love Is Not Worth Fighting For

“Love is not a place to come and go as we please It’s a house we enter in and then commit to never leave So, lock the door behind you, throw away the keys Work it out together…” The above […]
20th October 2016

Being Mrs Korah

“Who do they think they are?” Korah said amidst the affirming nods of Abiram and Datham. “The Lord can speak through any of us. Are we not all Levites?” he continued. Tamuno heaved a sigh of distress from where she […]
16th October 2016

A Kiss Too Long

I have been to many relationship seminars where the most debated question is :Is Kissing a Sin? The constant recurrence of this question vividly shows that even Christians are not ready or willing to call a spade a spade. 1 […]
14th February 2016

Romeo and Juliet is a Lie!

As a little girl, I read stories that painted love so perfectly that I always dreamt of how beautiful it will be that day when my prince will come and steal my heart away. I constantly dreamt of my “happily […]
16th November 2015

The Thorny Rose

“You are also a lie?!” Ada screamed in desperation at the receiver on the other end of the phone. Tears trickling uncontrollably down her face, she disconnected the call. Amidst sobs, she bent over to straighten her gown which had […]
28th September 2015

How Did We Get Here?

How did we get here? From the wedding halls to the courtrooms From the altars to the docks From the priest’s solemnization to the judge’s verdict Just how did we get here…? How did we get here? From hearts bubbling […]
26th September 2015


My name is Ewapipe (meaning complete beauty) but there was nothing complete or beautiful about me as I sat in the village square of Ilogbo, drenched in my own blood from sores all over my body and watched Olu being […]
13th September 2015

The Steward Called Husband

Woman, where is my food?” Ade bellowed from the sitting room as his wife of seven years, Nkechi tried to put dinner together. “Nkay, I work to provide for you and the kids yet prompt preparation of my food is […]
11th September 2015

Till Death Do Us Part

“I surrender myself to you; I vow to love and cherish you with all my possession. I will love in all circumstances; in ill health and good health, in poverty and in plenty till death do us part” So, I […]