25th May 2020

On Relationships and Expectations

The first time I heard the sentence “expectation is the mother of miracles”, it was during a mid-week service in my undergraduate student fellowship. It was one of those “deep things” everyone seemed to agree upon. We were taught that […]
2nd January 2019

Make Him Wait II…

Making him wait does not equate playing hard to get. It does not mean continually saying no to his proposal and then hoping he waits around for you. It does not also mean stalling to give an answer by telling him that you are praying or thinking about it for months or years when in reality, you are just playing hard to get.
27th December 2018

Make Him Wait…

Making him wait far more than being one of the tricks in the relationship game book, is a way to protect your heart from potential hurt.
2nd August 2018

Absence Makes the Heart Forget! Here is Why

“Absence makes the heart grow fonder but continuous absence makes the heart forget” Thomas Haynes Bayly “Absence makes the heart grow fonder” is one quote that has been doing a great job at consoling couples who have to cultivate a […]
25th September 2017

Love; Creating Your Own Fairy Tale

“Most people get married believing a myth that marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for; Companionship, intimacy, friendship etc … The truth is, that marriage at the start is an empty box, you […]
2nd August 2017

Career and Family: Can A Woman Have it All?

As Sayo watched a female lawyer successfully defend her client in a soap opera, she looked at Tade, her twenty year old son and said, “I was going to become a lawyer” With his eyes widened and his mouth ajar, […]
31st May 2017

Love and Giving

“It is not how much we give but how much love we put into giving” Mother Theresa   I am a lover of love stories and I recently came across the love story of  J.R.R Tolkein, the author of Lord […]
8th May 2017

When Love Is Not Worth Fighting For

“Love is not a place to come and go as we please It’s a house we enter in and then commit to never leave So, lock the door behind you, throw away the keys Work it out together…” The above […]
20th October 2016

Being Mrs Korah

“Who do they think they are?” Korah said amidst the affirming nods of Abiram and Datham. “The Lord can speak through any of us. Are we not all Levites?” he continued. Tamuno heaved a sigh of distress from where she […]
16th October 2016

A Kiss Too Long

I have been to many relationship seminars where the most debated question is :Is Kissing a Sin? The constant recurrence of this question vividly shows that even Christians are not ready or willing to call a spade a spade. 1 […]
23rd September 2016

Even Stolen Waters are Sweet!

After tasting of the tree of knowledge of good and evil,  I can imagine Adam and Eve saying to themselves “This God sef, he no want make we enjoy better thing?”. To them, it just would not have made sense […]
14th February 2016

Romeo and Juliet is a Lie!

As a little girl, I read stories that painted love so perfectly that I always dreamt of how beautiful it will be that day when my prince will come and steal my heart away. I constantly dreamt of my “happily […]