The first time I heard the sentence “expectation is the mother of miracles”, it was during a mid-week service in my undergraduate student fellowship. It was one of those “deep things” everyone seemed to agree upon. We were taught that without expectations, we would not be able to receive the miracles that we desperately desire. …
Making him wait does not equate playing hard to get. It does not mean continually saying no to his proposal and then hoping he waits around for you. It does not also mean stalling to give an answer by telling him that you are praying or thinking about it for months or years when in reality, you are just playing hard to get.
Making him wait far more than being one of the tricks in the relationship game book, is a way to protect your heart from potential hurt.
“Absence makes the heart grow fonder but continuous absence makes the heart forget” Thomas Haynes Bayly “Absence makes the heart grow fonder” is one quote that has been doing a great job at consoling couples who have to cultivate a relationship in spite of distance. And it is true that in some instances, the best …
“Most people get married believing a myth that marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for; Companionship, intimacy, friendship etc … The truth is, that marriage at the start is an empty box, you must put something in before you can take anything out. There is no love in …
As Sayo watched a female lawyer successfully defend her client in a soap opera, she looked at Tade, her twenty year old son and said, “I was going to become a lawyer” With his eyes widened and his mouth ajar, he replied, ‘Really? So, what happened” With a weak smile, she said “I got married …
“It is not how much we give but how much love we put into giving” Mother Theresa I am a lover of love stories and I recently came across the love story of J.R.R Tolkein, the author of Lord of the Rings and his wife Edith Mary Bratt, and I was very inspired to say the …
“Love is not a place to come and go as we please It’s a house we enter in and then commit to never leave So, lock the door behind you, throw away the keys Work it out together…” The above words are lyrics of Warren Barfield’s song Love is Not a Fight; listen here a song …
“Who do they think they are?” Korah said amidst the affirming nods of Abiram and Datham. “The Lord can speak through any of us. Are we not all Levites?” he continued. Tamuno heaved a sigh of distress from where she was peeping into the yard where the men were discussing. With immense trouble in her …
I have been to many relationship seminars where the most debated question is :Is Kissing a Sin? The constant recurrence of this question vividly shows that even Christians are not ready or willing to call a spade a spade. 1 Corinthians 16:20 ” All the brethren greet you. Greet ye one another with an holy …
After tasting of the tree of knowledge of good and evil, I can imagine Adam and Eve saying to themselves “This God sef, he no want make we enjoy better thing?”. To them, it just would not have made sense that God instructed them not to taste of a fruit that looked so pleasant to …
As a little girl, I read stories that painted love so perfectly that I always dreamt of how beautiful it will be that day when my prince will come and steal my heart away. I constantly dreamt of my “happily ever after” with my Prince Charming until I read Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet. Chai! All …
“And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” Genesis 2:18 (KJV) After writing The Steward Called Husband, I got varying reactions and comments which made it necessary for me to write this article. It is true that the husband’s …
“There are some things a lady can receive only from herself” T.D Jakes Today, it is almost impossible to see a 16 year old who has not been in a romantic relationship. Most young girls rush into relationships and the reasons for that are numerous. The most prominent reason I have come to discover is …
Hey! Ladies, let’s have a girly chat. It’s almost axiomatic to say every lady has a mental picture of what her “Mr. Right” should look like. Most of us want the Tall, Dark and Handsome hero in Harlequin’s novels. Others want a man( with an emphasis on the m) with a well built frame and …
You will always have questions To which only God has the perfect solutions If you keep your eyes and gaze on Him, He will guide you through life. When boys gamble, kings trust God. When you were a kid, you had virtually no responsibility But as they age,kings take up responsibilities; They are responsible for …
