28th December 2020

3 Tips to Building Meaningful Friendships

“May we find friends worth having With every year passing may they mean more than gold”   If there is one lesson 2020 taught us, it is the importance of having reliable friends in your corner. In the past year, […]
16th September 2020

Contemporary Nigerian Music and the Failing Society

“Scientists have found that music stimulates more parts of the brain than any other human function.” Elena Mannes, Power of Music It was December 2019! I had just arrived Muritala Mohammed Airport and I was looking forward to a nice […]
10th July 2020

Rising Above Societal Narratives

“We live in dark times. We can choose. We can be a shinning light. It is possible” Bukola Omodara   I was recently asked to speak at an event for young ladies between ages 13 and 25 on the following […]
25th May 2020

On Relationships and Expectations

The first time I heard the sentence “expectation is the mother of miracles”, it was during a mid-week service in my undergraduate student fellowship. It was one of those “deep things” everyone seemed to agree upon. We were taught that […]
11th May 2020

Nigerians and the Culture of Mutual Disrespect

I always knew it but the privilege of having to live in another country in West Africa helped me confirm it beyond all reasonable doubt that we do not respect each other in Nigeria. And this lack of respect taints […]
25th August 2019

Ayisha Osori’s Love Does Not Win Elections: Elections in Nigeria for Dummies

Ayisha Osori's detailed, up, close and personal account of her experience while running for the PDP Primary Elections in 2015 as documented in Love Does Not Win Elections is a must read not only for intending politicians but also for […]
9th January 2019


Everybody has style but a lady with panache expresses her style in a way that one can hardly ignore not necessarily because she adorns herself with the most expensive jewelry or wears the most expensive perfumes, but rather because of the way she comports herself.
2nd January 2019

Make Him Wait II…

Making him wait does not equate playing hard to get. It does not mean continually saying no to his proposal and then hoping he waits around for you. It does not also mean stalling to give an answer by telling him that you are praying or thinking about it for months or years when in reality, you are just playing hard to get.
27th December 2018

Make Him Wait…

Making him wait far more than being one of the tricks in the relationship game book, is a way to protect your heart from potential hurt.
26th December 2018

Lade Falobi; the award winning teenager using photography for Social Good

I figured out that my photography could do more than just show the world what I see; it could be a way to help others. In accordance with the United Nation's SDG 17 (Partnership for the goals), I started working with NGOs and small startups that had ideas that could help change the world. I take pictures of them carrying out their projects, so that they could show others, especially those who could give them grants to further aid their projects.
5th October 2018

Leading an Educational Revolution in Nigeria

There is no gainsaying that education is a very important tool of nation building and one of the core indices of national development. In fact, in the very true words of Erasmus, “the main hope of a nation lies in […]
2nd August 2018

Absence Makes the Heart Forget! Here is Why

“Absence makes the heart grow fonder but continuous absence makes the heart forget” Thomas Haynes Bayly “Absence makes the heart grow fonder” is one quote that has been doing a great job at consoling couples who have to cultivate a […]